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WARNING: Brace Yourself For The Biggest "Ah Ha" Moment You Will Ever Have… And Learn Why The Process You’ve Been Taught Is Guaranteed To Make You Fail Every Time…
I read an anonymous quote the other day on Facebook that simply said: “You’ll never achieve your dreams if they don’t become goals.”
And while I understand the intent of this statement is to underscore the importance of setting tangible goals and remaining focused on attaining them, I couldn’t disagree more with the quote itself… And if you will allow me a few brief moments of your precious time, I assure you that as we explore this concept further – it will forever change your life! In fact, I will show you EXACTLY WHY embracing this quote will actually thwart you from successfully achieving your coveted end results – but more important – I will show you what to do to solve it…
Now, in some ways we are simply being playful with semantics as we embark upon this debate of "goals vs. dreams…" But to delve a bit further into the realm of the Universal Laws, we rapidly see that the process of setting goals undermines the very intent of their acquisition. To set a goal, in and of itself, is to illuminate the “lack thereof.” So to say your “goal” is to drive a fancy sports car is in effect focusing on the lack of that tangible object in your life. And to further set your sights on daily activities that will bring about the acquisition of that fancy car is to continue to focus incessantly on that which you do not currently possess.
In contrast, to “dream” of that fancy sports car in effect puts you in the driver’s seat (pun definitely intended)…
As you feel the wind in your hair riding the highway of life – embracing the feelings and emotions you associate with being the owner of that prized possession.
Feels totally different, doesn’t it? And in your “dreams,” as you feel the cool leather seats envelop your body, wrap your hands around the powerful steering wheel and shift into high gear, your reverie does not include pulling off to the side of the road to check off your ‘to do’ list for the day, does it?
The astute reader could wisely challenge me at this juncture and raise the notion that sitting around “dreaming” all day about being in that sports car isn’t going to make it magically appear in the driveway, now, is it? Well… yes, and no – and here’s where the rubber meets the road! (Yes, another shameless pun.) As an Intuitive Life Coach, as well as in my own personal life, I am a huge proponent of:
But at the same time, once we set our sights on a target – I am equally in favor of letting the universe take the wheel.
But make no mistake, this is not a prescription for passivity – to the contrary, it’s all about Action – INSPIRED ACTION in fact.
Let’s Quickly Review The Old Ways: (You Know – The Ones That DON’T Work!)
We’ve all seen flowcharts that start at the top with a topic or a “goal” and then branch out ad nauseam into a million (or so it seems) infinite legs of action items, steps or yes/no scenarios…
And metaphysically speaking, spiraling downward is in… Read more…