"I haven’t slept since she left me! I’m desperate and I need your help!" Shouted my buddy Brian. I could tell he had been crying but he was covering it up.
I looked my best friend straight in the eye and said, "Just relax man. I know exactly how you can get her back."
Brian relaxed a bit after hearing those words and said, "I could sense something was wrong for the past few weeks now but I didn’t do anything about it. I could literally feel her slipping away from me. Little by little she drifted further and further away, giving me less and less attention. I honestly didn’t know what to do…"
I just smiled inwardly, knowing all too well that this kind of thing happens all the freakin’ time. Lord knows I’ve gone through it many times myself. Everything was going well with Brian and his girlfriend for years and then one day, BAM, all of a sudden:
This all went on for about two months (driving poor Brian crazy wondering why). And then, seemingly out of nowhere she drops those four little words that made Brian’s heart do summersaults. Thump! Thump! Thump!
When they went out for coffee, Brian was pretty nervous. He could sense what was coming. He knew they were having problems, but he never guessed it would come to this.
As he made small talk, Brian’s heart continued to race. He tried his best to hold himself together but it was no use. She kept saying things like:
She even went on to blame Brian for the problems in the relationship. As if it was somehow all his fault.
And after that, the rest is history. You already know how it ends because it literally just happened to you. And just like my friend Brian, you’re going to need my help, so read on.
Shockingly, the vast majority of what men naturally do after a breakup actually ensures they will never get back together with their ex girlfriend.
Acting depressed so your ex girlfriend will feel bad for you and want you back out of pity?
Generally being overly nice and telling your girlfriend you love her over and over again?
Telling your girlfriend you will change and that things will be different next time?
Using phony, manipulative trickery such as money, kids and guilt to almost bribe your ex girlfriend back to you?
Futilely trying to reason, argue and use logic to persuade your ex girlfriend to come back to you? (hint: women make decisions based on emotion and not logic – I will show you how to leverage her emotions)
It’s hard to believe, but all of the above will only further push your ex girlfriend away from you. What actually works seems very counter-productive but I assure you it is based on deep rooted female psychology. I’m talking about the stuff that makes her tick. The stuff she has absolutely no control over. It’s how she is biologically programmed to behave.
I’m just going to be honest with you: women always look for a rebound after a breakup. Did you know that based on a study released August 5th 1997, researchers found that women have sex with an average of 12 men in their life while men only have sex with 7 women? How’s that for shattering a sexual stereotype?
My point is, women have it much easier when it comes to sexual selection. Often times, they… Read more…